If you didn't know I've been on a TRIP these past few days. We flew to Legazpi City the home of the beautiful Mayon Volcano. I was a little nervous in the plane because of my awareness that I am 20,000 ft. above the ground. My mind is ancient and it is not used to airplanes.
ANYWAYS!haha
I just want to share what I have observed while overhearing mom and dad talking last night. Yeah yeah, my parents were my roommates in Donsol. I just couldn't sleep without them. Get over it!haha Anyways that observation was just bring your HUMOR and you're all set!
JASON MRAZ once shared how some people tends to judge his music based on the melody, the tone of his voice or how well he performs but once he starts making people LAUGH, everyone forgets how they should judge his music, but people starts to just go with the flow of the melody and just enjoy it. While watching him explain that at first, I didn't get it. I mean I wasn't crazy about the idea but I just took it as words. And then last night happened, I was eavesdropping while mom and dad was having a conversation at 2am! I couldn't sleep because Mom was laughing. Dad was sharing how Hannah wasn't happy about something. Then Mom was all "it's all your fault!" then Dad said "Yeah it was my fault, while you are here in the room already sleeping I was talking and comforting Hannah" Then Mom simply laughed. I was laughing on the inside too but I didn't show them because that would ruin their moment.
That is when I understood Jason Mraz. I think it is innate how we just look for a hole about something when we shouldn't. But laughter, best shifts the way to that hole and lead us towards where we should go. I can't help but SMILE while acting asleep. But I've decided to open my eyes and show them that I was awake after that. I saw a cockroach on the ceiling and showed them both. Dad attempted to kill it with his slipper. I was under the sheets the whole time. Just as i've thought that it was safe to open my blanket, the cockroach initiated its flying powers and I screamed at 2:30am. Everything was FUNNY!
Making jokes calms people. It is calming in such a way that, it makes you not worry about problems or simply make you not care and kills whatever unhealthy thing you are thinking. I think the best way to not think about something too hard is to make yourself laugh. I am at my best when I am around funny people. I take life less serious and enjoy the present. If you spend too much time judging life, you are dead.
I always notice during serious talks where people talk about frustrations, achievements, reasons, and stuff on the dark side you end up thinking too much which is really depressing or you end up comparing yourself to other people. An example is a guy sharing how he is a president of their society and he is awarded best leader or something you end up comparing yourself to him. Making yourself inferior and not talk. You will then think, why did I not become president like him? or why is it that I haven't achieved something great in my life?. Which is just sad. Talks like that are not fun at all. It makes you bring out the feeling wherein you know it exist but you just want to get rid of it. And because of people sharing too much about how they hate life or bragging about how life for them is too good it triggers a disliked emotion which will ruin the time you have here.
All i'm saying is just make more room for laughter and less room for unnecessary emotions. You will be surprised how simple life is.
xoxo,
Chameleon
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